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How to handle this small problem?.....
Jul 14th, 2010 at 12:17pm
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I have a person in my guild that I consider to be a very good friend.
He is great fun to run quests with.

There is one small problem I have though.

He will usually join the group knowing full well that there is a very high likelyhood of newer inexperienced players in our groups.
This leads to the dilemna..

Knowing that I will have the star, he will wait until opportune moments when proper instruction is crucial to the success or failure of any particular task we may have before us.

At this moment, with near perfect timing to keying up the mic he started with simple things such as:

?r Slink I told you not right now, I'm still sore from the gerbil you gave me last night. Sad

'Hey Big Sexy'
'Your voice makes me wet'

He would type these things in party chat.
I grew immune to these small catchphrases but he has moved onward with his party chat to more hysterical notions thru /tells.

Things such as:

/tell <xxxxxxxx> tells you: My nipples are popping

I can not contain myself when these things occur and have no choice but to ROTFLMAO.

These incidents have caused party wipes and I have decided the best way to handle it is to /squelch add when I know that proper instruction is crucial to the success or failure of a particular quest.

He has taken this one step further by sending /tells to other members of the party in advance and now has them conveying his messages thru copy/paste.  Undecided

What should I do?
Give up leading or grow a thicker skin?

  
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Re: How to handle this small problem?.....
Reply #1 - Jul 14th, 2010 at 12:27pm
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Someone copy and paste this in case the squelch extends to the forums.
Slink,

I believe the person you are refering to will probably move on to messing with you in different ways. Causing party wipes is getting old! Though your voice is super sexy and it makes that persons nipples explode when you key up the mic, they will stop sending tells. From now on if you see one of their characters jumping up and down while you give instructions, just know that the nipples are popping.

Bromantically yours,

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Reply #2 - Jul 14th, 2010 at 12:49pm
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"No wonder I always thought you were a dick."
Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin
  
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Re: How to handle this small problem?.....
Reply #3 - Jul 14th, 2010 at 1:04pm
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OMG I cannot quit laughing.   Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin


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Reply #4 - Jul 14th, 2010 at 1:28pm
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What should I do?
Give up leading or grow a thicker skin?



You should boot him from your guild with specific instructions to join I T G.
  
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Reply #5 - Jul 14th, 2010 at 5:58pm
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Is Slink in a guild?
  

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Reply #6 - Jul 14th, 2010 at 6:50pm
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Pffft.  Wait until your friend graduates into putting words into your mouth.  Just ask Aranticus (Cylene):



Since I know it's not clear: That's me typing "I LIKE HOTDOGS" and "I CAN HAS CHEEZBURGER" on his behalf Smiley

Here's one where I kill him (twice):

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Reply #7 - Jul 14th, 2010 at 6:58pm
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In particularly boring eq raids I used to like to pretend to accidentally misstell extremely graphic /tells of me cybering with our guildleader (we're both males) and I had to stop because it kept causing wipes

Imo your friend is a pretty cool guy who is doing god's work
  
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Re: How to handle this small problem?.....
Reply #8 - Jul 14th, 2010 at 6:59pm
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Strakeln wrote on Jul 14th, 2010 at 6:50pm:
Pffft.  Wait until your friend graduates into putting words into your mouth.  Just ask Aranticus (Cylene):

http://sites.google.com/site/ddovault/ScreenShot00041.jpg

Since I know it's not clear: That's me typing "I LIKE HOTDOGS" and "I CAN HAS CHEEZBURGER" on his behalf Smiley

Here's one where I kill him (twice):

http://sites.google.com/site/ddovault/ScreenShot00039.jpg


I will give you my son if you teach that to me. He is strong and can lift things. He is also really smart, so you will need to hit him with a bat and dumb him down some.
  

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Reply #9 - Jul 14th, 2010 at 7:32pm
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stainer wrote on Jul 14th, 2010 at 6:59pm:
I will give you my son if you teach that to me. He is strong and can lift things. He is also really smart, so you will need to hit him with a bat and dumb him down some.

Sorry, don't like or want kids.  Got any dogs?

If I remember correctly, <li> was one way to get a newline.  Copy the "(Party): [Party] Cylene:" portion (so that clicking on the name will correctly link).

So the first "I LIKE HOTDOGS" line looked like this when I typed it:

huh?<li>(Party): [Party] Cylene: I LIKE HOTDOGS

(only instead of "Cylene", the "<player id=Cylene string=0x932432432432>" thingy shows up when you paste it).

I do remember reading in some release notes (U4?) that they had removed the ability of people to use colors in text chat (due in part to me using this to type in general chat in red text that the world was going to shut down in 30 seconds, logoff now... heh).  I'm not sure if this included the <li> tag, though I suspect it did.
  

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Reply #10 - Jul 14th, 2010 at 7:36pm
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Ahhh... so the chat window is come sort of HTML Control or responds to HTML tags...interesting.  I'll have to play with that.
  

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Reply #11 - Jul 14th, 2010 at 8:13pm
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Eladiun wrote on Jul 14th, 2010 at 7:36pm:
Ahhh... so the chat window is come sort of HTML Control or responds to HTML tags...interesting.  I'll have to play with that.

Well, HTML-ish, at least.  <li> invokes a newline, but is missing the '-'.  I think <br> didn't work.

However, I suspect they may have disabled all of this, as it was probably easier to do than just disabling color.  That's Turbine's MO.
  

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that was funny
  
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Reply #13 - Jul 15th, 2010 at 12:27am
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I would probably ditch him for a build with more DPS.  Maybe a bard?   Smiley
  

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Reply #14 - Jul 15th, 2010 at 12:33am
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Schmoe wrote on Jul 15th, 2010 at 12:27am:
I would probably ditch him for a build with more DPS.  Maybe a bard?   Smiley

No, that's why Gawna's there obv!
  
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Reply #15 - Jul 15th, 2010 at 6:04pm
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I have a person in my guild that I consider to be a very good friend.
He is great fun to run quests with.

When did Chonas join your guild?  Shocked
  
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Reply #16 - Jul 15th, 2010 at 6:05pm
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Dark_Helmet wrote on Jul 15th, 2010 at 6:04pm:
When did Chonas join your guild?  Shocked


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Reply #17 - Aug 18th, 2010 at 4:08pm
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I am glad to report that my small problems with this person have been resolved.

I can continue in all situations, unphased, by this type of behavior.

Thanx everyone for your help when I needed it!
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Reply #18 - Aug 18th, 2010 at 8:33pm
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This reminds me of the ability to stealth in Vent and use the moderator ability to record and playback shit in diff channels.

Had alot of fun with that.

  

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Reply #19 - Aug 20th, 2010 at 3:27am
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why is slink listed as an "ex member"?
  

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Reply #20 - Aug 20th, 2010 at 7:59am
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Ashurr wrote on Aug 20th, 2010 at 3:27am:
why is slink listed as an "ex member"?


Was just wondering the same.
  

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Reply #21 - Aug 20th, 2010 at 9:01am
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Ashurr wrote on Aug 20th, 2010 at 3:27am:
why is slink listed as an "ex member"?


Oh for God's sake Slink, grow the fuck up!
  

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Reply #22 - Aug 20th, 2010 at 2:17pm
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Arkat wrote on Aug 20th, 2010 at 9:01am:
Oh for God's sake Slink, grow the fuck up!


What does this mean? What happened that you think he needs to grow up?
  

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Reply #23 - Aug 20th, 2010 at 2:28pm
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Gornn wrote on Aug 20th, 2010 at 2:17pm:
What does this mean? What happened that you think he needs to grow up?


I can't think of another reason (besides an acidental one) why he left other than he got pissed and just left.
  

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Reply #24 - Aug 20th, 2010 at 4:51pm
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Bah, with drama like this, who needs DDO?

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