Astraghal wrote on Sep 8
th, 2010 at 6:15am:
We both agree that it is what it is now, a forum that internet bullies use to coordinate their nasty agendas.
We both agree? You keep trying to put words in my mouth. Slow your roll, stop looking to be offended, and read what I am saying. I often choose my words very deliberately. I have agreed that "it is what it is", but I have not agreed with your assessment of what it is.
Astraghal wrote on Sep 8
th, 2010 at 6:15am:
You have confirmed that the spirit of my orignal statement holds true, even if the wording was off.
No, I've confirmed that you're entitled to your opinion of what it is today.
Look, Astra, I can see where you're coming from. You're not well-liked here. That's not a fun or reaffirming situation to be in. What you fail to realize is that your reception here is entirely based on your own actions. You posted a screenie of you possibly acting like a skeeze, but then failed to find any fault with your own behavior... something that comes across as a confirmation of skeezehood.
Lots of people come to the Vault and do the same. A few stop being stubborn and actually try to listen to what people are trying to tell them, and they become welcome members of the community (Chonas is a shining example. Sure, we still give him a hard time, but I know many were truly disappointed that he had to take a break). I do believe you're the first person who has outright refused to learn and yet still stuck around.
So I can certainly see why you feel this is a forum for a big bullying clique... you're always getting beat on. That's due to people giving up on trying to explain things to you, and have instead decided to continually treat you like shit in an effort to get you to disappear. You are, without a doubt, being bullied.
...but it's still completely within your control. I don't think you've gone beyond the point of no return. It would require a fair deal of introspection and dealing with a whole lotta residual hate, but I think it's still far from impossible. Yes, I know, you don't care... but you and I know that to some degree, you do.