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Distributed Abbot Raider Offline Posts: 855 Joined: Oct 4^th, 2013 Gender:	Am I a jerk? Or are people just fucking clingy? Apr 25^th, 2014 at 2:18am	Print Post
	This, situation, happens at least once a week for me. Put up LFM, people join, zerg through 2mil exp or whatever in a few hours. Done, log off, log on next day. Random person you did not even know before that joined said group: "Hey are you running anything?", every day after that group. So as always, I reply the usual after I get annoyed: "If I'm running anything, I will have a group up, if I don't, I'm soloing. Stop sending me random tells asking for that, I don't even know you". And then the usual reaction is along the lines of "wow wtf, don't worry I won't ask again, jerk". Do people somehow think you magically become their friends because you grouped with them once, when all they ever said in group was "what's next"? Or do they think I'm some kind of whore they can just call to get free and fast exp? Or are they just clingy fucks that get offended when I tell them they're annoying? Or am I really a jerk?


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Persiflage Abbot Raider Offline Posts: 974 Location: Khyber Joined: Jan 28^th, 2013	Re: Am I a jerk? Or are people just fucking clingy? Reply #1 - Apr 25^th, 2014 at 2:36am	Print Post
	Why is that an "or" question?

	stainer wrote on May 16^th, 2013 at 9:26am: Oh you are good. I will be watching you. QuantumFX wrote on Jun 5^th, 2013 at 11:11am: You are an evil human being.� m4lacka wrote on Mar 29^th, 2014 at 7:04am: wow that post hurt a lot more than any of the namecalling i expected. Now I see why ppl consider you evil.
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shineys Korthos Resident Offline I Love Drama! Posts: 35 Joined: Apr 22^nd, 2014	Re: Am I a jerk? Or are people just fucking clingy? Reply #2 - Apr 25^th, 2014 at 2:36am	Print Post
	ill go with clingy you should let them join then lead them to theirs deaths over and over that should stop the tells


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Sim-Sala-Bim Completionist (i.t.p.) Offline Wha...? Posts: 5356 Joined: Nov 2^nd, 2013 Gender:	Re: Am I a jerk? Or are people just fucking clingy? Reply #3 - Apr 25^th, 2014 at 2:40am	Print Post
	This is related to how good (not solo but with a group) you are. People just want to run with good players. I had a guildie that was sending me party invites within a minute after I login. Tbh she was a good player, she just wanted to be sure to have 1-2 good players running with her. Normally such a thing requires a prerequisite of being friends. In these modern times, people just ignore such cordial manners. Or on the other hand, maybe they just fall in love with your personality?�


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Rubbinns The Undeserving Fuckwit Offline I Love Drama! Posts: 10460 Joined: Sep 4^th, 2013	Re: Am I a jerk? Or are people just fucking clingy? Reply #4 - Apr 25^th, 2014 at 2:51am	Print Post
	I can see how this must tie your thong in a knot up your gaping puss. I have the same problem The thong up my cavernous hole, and not the random tells. Glad we could help one another here.

	Mockduck wrote on Aug 30^th, 2010 at 2:20pm: I don't think naming names would be a good thing for me to do, but I'd pretty much add anyone who's a know-it-all dick on the list.� Even if they are sometimes intelligent with their opinions, the way they state them in long, "i'm a lawyer at trial"-type posts makes me want to punch them in the face.� They act like whiney babies with god complexes and then freak out if someone so much as breathes criticism in their direction.
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Distributed Abbot Raider Offline Posts: 855 Joined: Oct 4^th, 2013 Gender:	Re: Am I a jerk? Or are people just fucking clingy? Reply #5 - Apr 25^th, 2014 at 2:53am	Print Post
	Sim-Sala-Bim wrote on Apr 25^th, 2014 at 2:40am: Normally such a thing requires a prerequisite of being friends. In these modern times, people just ignore such cordial manners. Or on the other hand, maybe they just fall in love with your personality?� That's what really bothers me. They're just strangers to me...yet they act like friends. It's kinda creepy sometimes. And no. No one would ever fall in love with my personality.


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Distributed Abbot Raider Offline Posts: 855 Joined: Oct 4^th, 2013 Gender:	Re: Am I a jerk? Or are people just fucking clingy? Reply #6 - Apr 25^th, 2014 at 2:59am	Print Post
	Rubbinns wrote on Apr 25^th, 2014 at 2:51am: my cavernous hole Too much fisting?


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Rubbinns The Undeserving Fuckwit Offline I Love Drama! Posts: 10460 Joined: Sep 4^th, 2013	Re: Am I a jerk? Or are people just fucking clingy? Reply #7 - Apr 25^th, 2014 at 3:06am	Print Post
	Distributed wrote on Apr 25^th, 2014 at 2:59am: Too much fisting? That would make sense. Was confused on how we both have had the same symptoms.

	Mockduck wrote on Aug 30^th, 2010 at 2:20pm: I don't think naming names would be a good thing for me to do, but I'd pretty much add anyone who's a know-it-all dick on the list.� Even if they are sometimes intelligent with their opinions, the way they state them in long, "i'm a lawyer at trial"-type posts makes me want to punch them in the face.� They act like whiney babies with god complexes and then freak out if someone so much as breathes criticism in their direction.
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crazytiger Waterworks Kobold Offline I Love Drama! Posts: 118 Joined: Apr 10^th, 2014	Re: Am I a jerk? Or are people just fucking clingy? Reply #8 - Apr 25^th, 2014 at 3:14am	Print Post
	Most likely its because you got them fast exp


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Distributed Abbot Raider Offline Posts: 855 Joined: Oct 4^th, 2013 Gender:	Re: Am I a jerk? Or are people just fucking clingy? Reply #9 - Apr 25^th, 2014 at 3:18am	Print Post
	You must be confusing me with someone else. I have no gaping holes


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Rubbinns The Undeserving Fuckwit Offline I Love Drama! Posts: 10460 Joined: Sep 4^th, 2013	Re: Am I a jerk? Or are people just fucking clingy? Reply #10 - Apr 25^th, 2014 at 3:23am	Print Post
	Distributed wrote on Apr 25^th, 2014 at 3:18am: You must be confusing me with someone else. I have no gaping holes� You can only lie when you believe it first.

	Mockduck wrote on Aug 30^th, 2010 at 2:20pm: I don't think naming names would be a good thing for me to do, but I'd pretty much add anyone who's a know-it-all dick on the list.� Even if they are sometimes intelligent with their opinions, the way they state them in long, "i'm a lawyer at trial"-type posts makes me want to punch them in the face.� They act like whiney babies with god complexes and then freak out if someone so much as breathes criticism in their direction.
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Jere Korthos Resident Offline I Love Drama! Posts: 15 Joined: Mar 13^th, 2014	Re: Am I a jerk? Or are people just fucking clingy? Reply #11 - Apr 25^th, 2014 at 3:35am	Print Post
	You know those NPCs in the marketplace? The ones that just sit there, day in, day out, wiping their ass, jerking off, asking each other how the sausage was? The ones that have no life, no meaning, no higher purpose? The ones that say nothing, go nowhere, and do nothing but perform the same tasks over and over again? The ones that can do a million different wonderful things, but always end up spitting out, "the red one", because that's what the fat leotard-wearing dead-end in front of him wants? The ones whose sole reason to be is to supply that fanny-pack wearing intellectual dead-end with "the red ones" all day, all night, today, tomorrow, and ever on? And lardo come waltzing up with great big sack and a hundred time of saying, "the red one". Say hello, Mr. Goldscuttle!


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Angry Puppy Farmer Offline Posts: 1699 Joined: Feb 13^th, 2014	Re: Am I a jerk? Or are people just fucking clingy? Reply #12 - Apr 25^th, 2014 at 3:40am	Print Post
	Yup, you're a jerk. I'd never call you it to your face, though


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Distributed Abbot Raider Offline Posts: 855 Joined: Oct 4^th, 2013 Gender:	Re: Am I a jerk? Or are people just fucking clingy? Reply #13 - Apr 25^th, 2014 at 3:46am	Print Post
	Angry wrote on Apr 25^th, 2014 at 3:40am: Yup, you're a jerk. I'd never call you it to your face, though Oh well, being nice would be too hard so, jerk it is.


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NOTdarth Puppy Farmer Offline Save the Planet, Kill Yourself Posts: 1495 Joined: Oct 15^th, 2012 Gender:	Re: Am I a jerk? Or are people just fucking clingy? Reply #14 - Apr 25^th, 2014 at 3:52am	Print Post
	Distributed wrote on Apr 25^th, 2014 at 3:46am: Oh well, being nice would be too hard so, jerk it is. Nice guys finish last.


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derkaderka Korthos Resident Offline I Love Drama! Posts: 9 Joined: Apr 23^rd, 2014	Re: Am I a jerk? Or are people just fucking clingy? Reply #15 - Apr 25^th, 2014 at 3:56am	Print Post
	which server you on? i am tring soon i need help with vale quest especially rainbow its very dark. and also lord of dust chain very long can u help me wha tlevel u now what quests u goign to do today? u gonna be on tonight we could do alot of q


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m4lacka Horoluth Raider Offline Coitus ergo sum. Posts: 2494 Joined: Mar 19^th, 2014	Re: Am I a jerk? Or are people just fucking clingy? Reply #16 - Apr 25^th, 2014 at 4:19am	Print Post
	Distributed wrote on Apr 25^th, 2014 at 2:18am: This, situation, happens at least once a week for me. Put up LFM, people join, zerg through 2mil exp or whatever in a few hours. Done, log off, log on next day. Random person you did not even know before that joined said group: "Hey are you running anything?", every day after that group. So as always, I reply the usual after I get annoyed: "If I'm running anything, I will have a group up, if I don't, I'm soloing. Stop sending me random tells asking for that, I don't even know you". And then the usual reaction is along the lines of "wow wtf, don't worry I won't ask again, jerk". Do people somehow think you magically become their friends because you grouped with them once, when all they ever said in group was "what's next"? Or do they think I'm some kind of whore they can just call to get free and fast exp? Or are they just clingy fucks that get offended when I tell them they're annoying? Or am I really a jerk? OMG! The same happened to me last time! Wanna become friends with me on Facebook?

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Alex DeLarge Epic Poster Offline Get ready for some of the 'ol in-out, in-out Posts: 3481 Location: Foggy Albion Joined: May 11^th, 2013 Gender:	Re: Am I a jerk? Or are people just fucking clingy? Reply #17 - Apr 25^th, 2014 at 4:21am	Print Post
	derkaderka wrote on Apr 25^th, 2014 at 3:56am: which server you on? i am tring soon i need help with vale quest especially rainbow its very dark. and also lord of dust chain very long can u help me wha tlevel u now what quests u goign to do today? u gonna be on tonight we could do alot of q


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Alex DeLarge Epic Poster Offline Get ready for some of the 'ol in-out, in-out Posts: 3481 Location: Foggy Albion Joined: May 11^th, 2013 Gender:	Re: Am I a jerk? Or are people just fucking clingy? Reply #18 - Apr 25^th, 2014 at 4:22am	Print Post
	NOTdarth wrote on Apr 25^th, 2014 at 3:52am: Nice guys finish last. Sometimes its actually a good thing


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NOTdarth Puppy Farmer Offline Save the Planet, Kill Yourself Posts: 1495 Joined: Oct 15^th, 2012 Gender:	Re: Am I a jerk? Or are people just fucking clingy? Reply #19 - Apr 25^th, 2014 at 4:53am	Print Post
	Alex DeLarge wrote on Apr 25^th, 2014 at 4:22am: Sometimes its actually a good thing Not in a gang-bang


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Persiflage Abbot Raider Offline Posts: 974 Location: Khyber Joined: Jan 28^th, 2013	Re: Am I a jerk? Or are people just fucking clingy? Reply #20 - Apr 25^th, 2014 at 5:10am	Print Post
	Distributed wrote on Apr 25^th, 2014 at 2:53am: That's what really bothers me. They're just strangers to me...yet they act like friends. It's kinda creepy sometimes. nods Quote: And no. No one would ever fall in love with my personality. That pretty much establishes that this was not an "or" question, like I said. QED.

	stainer wrote on May 16^th, 2013 at 9:26am: Oh you are good. I will be watching you. QuantumFX wrote on Jun 5^th, 2013 at 11:11am: You are an evil human being.� m4lacka wrote on Mar 29^th, 2014 at 7:04am: wow that post hurt a lot more than any of the namecalling i expected. Now I see why ppl consider you evil.
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Revaulting Completionist (i.t.p.) Offline Posts: 10143 Location: Not in my pants Joined: Apr 3^rd, 2014 Gender:	Re: Am I a jerk? Or are people just fucking clingy? Reply #21 - Apr 25^th, 2014 at 5:34am	Print Post


	Silence is golden, but I only get silver rolls.
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Munkenmo Epic Poster Offline Posts: 4343 Location: A land under down under Joined: Nov 10^th, 2010	Re: Am I a jerk? Or are people just fucking clingy? Reply #22 - Apr 25^th, 2014 at 6:41am	Print Post
	That is why I started running annon and only talking in channels. Sarlona is full of clingy pikers.

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Azog Ex Member	Re: Am I a jerk? Or are people just fucking clingy? Reply #23 - Apr 25^th, 2014 at 7:24am	Print Post
	Distributed, now that you ask, I would like to make a Role Playing guild with you in Wayfinder.


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euphrasyne Korthos Resident Offline Posts: 54 Location: state of insanity Joined: Oct 9^th, 2012	Re: Am I a jerk? Or are people just fucking clingy? Reply #24 - Apr 25^th, 2014 at 7:44am	Print Post
	If you are even remotely competent or nice you get the "I'll ADD you!" comment as the noob leaves. Said noob will then send you random tells until one of you dies. This is the way the world works.

	Just because it's not nice doesn't mean it's not miraculous. --Pratchett
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