Distributed wrote on Apr 25
th, 2014 at 2:18am:
This, situation, happens at least once a week for me.
Put up LFM, people join, zerg through 2mil exp or whatever in a few hours. Done, log off, log on next day.
Random person you did not even know before that joined said group: "Hey are you running anything?", every day after that group.
So as always, I reply the usual after I get annoyed: "If I'm running anything, I will have a group up, if I don't, I'm soloing. Stop sending me random tells asking for that, I don't even know you".
And then the usual reaction is along the lines of "wow wtf, don't worry I won't ask again, jerk".
Do people somehow think you magically become their friends because you grouped with them once, when all they ever said in group was "what's next"? Or do they think I'm some kind of whore they can just call to get free and fast exp? Or are they just clingy fucks that get offended when I tell them they're annoying?
Or am I really a jerk?
I've run with players, and forgotten about them, and then get tells from them saying "hey, remember we grouped together - can you send me some plat? I need to buy a new weapon!"
Some people are just socially inept. And they get upset when you point that out to them, using blunt words. It's ok. I think they deserve a little jerk-time.