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merciless Dragon Raider Offline Posts: 273 Joined: Oct 11^th, 2013 Gender:	Re: Am I a jerk? Or are people just fucking clingy? Reply #25 - Apr 25^th, 2014 at 8:06am	Print Post
	Distributed wrote on Apr 25^th, 2014 at 3:46am: Oh well, being nice would be too hard so, jerk it is. It could be worse, you could be tagyis

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Viktor Vaughn Puppy Farmer Offline Eberron burns Posts: 1561 Joined: Mar 19^th, 2014	Re: Am I a jerk? Or are people just fucking clingy? Reply #26 - Apr 25^th, 2014 at 8:07am	Print Post
	People are clingy.


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Illetirated Stormreaver Piker Offline I Love Drama! Posts: 568 Joined: Nov 19^th, 2013	Re: Am I a jerk? Or are people just fucking clingy? Reply #27 - Apr 25^th, 2014 at 8:12am	Print Post
	NOTdarth wrote on Apr 25^th, 2014 at 3:52am: Nice guys finish last. You got bullied in school. The bully "stole" the girl you had a crush on. Now you think you have to be like the bully.
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TheFifthSock Dragon Raider Offline Posts: 265 Location: The Rusty Nail Joined: Sep 7^th, 2012 Gender:	Re: Am I a jerk? Or are people just fucking clingy? Reply #28 - Apr 25^th, 2014 at 8:51am	Print Post
	Viktor Vaughn wrote on Apr 25^th, 2014 at 8:07am: People are clingy. True that... and some guildies are the worst of all!


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iliveyourdream13 Puppy Farmer Offline I Love Drama! Posts: 1521 Joined: Oct 8^th, 2013	Re: Am I a jerk? Or are people just fucking clingy? Reply #29 - Apr 25^th, 2014 at 9:00am	Print Post
	Distributed wrote on Apr 25^th, 2014 at 2:18am: This, situation, happens at least once a week for me. Put up LFM, people join, zerg through 2mil exp or whatever in a few hours. Done, log off, log on next day. Random person you did not even know before that joined said group: "Hey are you running anything?", every day after that group. So as always, I reply the usual after I get annoyed: "If I'm running anything, I will have a group up, if I don't, I'm soloing. Stop sending me random tells asking for that, I don't even know you". And then the usual reaction is along the lines of "wow wtf, don't worry I won't ask again, jerk". Do people somehow think you magically become their friends because you grouped with them once, when all they ever said in group was "what's next"? Or do they think I'm some kind of whore they can just call to get free and fast exp? Or are they just clingy fucks that get offended when I tell them they're annoying? Or am I really a jerk? You're stupid. The only reason the XP was free was because you made it that way. Fucking charge them an entry fee to your party, get XP and Profit. They want the XP, they pay the door charge. The first time was free, just to hook them. Seriously, you could stand to learn a lot from a street pusher.


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crazytiger Waterworks Kobold Offline I Love Drama! Posts: 118 Joined: Apr 10^th, 2014	Re: Am I a jerk? Or are people just fucking clingy? Reply #30 - Apr 25^th, 2014 at 9:09am	Print Post
	im tired of hearing u guys crying about issues when you started them yourself


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NaturalHazard VoD Slasher Offline I Love Drama! Posts: 1889 Joined: Jul 28^th, 2011	Re: Am I a jerk? Or are people just fucking clingy? Reply #31 - Apr 25^th, 2014 at 9:30am	Print Post
	Is your ignore list now full is this why you have this problem?


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Erofen Dragon Raider Offline I Love Drama! Posts: 204 Joined: Mar 18^th, 2014	Re: Am I a jerk? Or are people just fucking clingy? Reply #32 - Apr 25^th, 2014 at 9:37am	Print Post
	shineys wrote on Apr 25^th, 2014 at 2:36am: ill go with clingy you should let them join then lead them to theirs deaths over and over that should stop the tells� DIAF Ceal.!�


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Rasczak Stormreaver Piker Offline Instant Human...Just Add Coffee Posts: 668 Location: South, Way South Joined: Oct 4^th, 2010 Gender:	Re: Am I a jerk? Or are people just fucking clingy? Reply #33 - Apr 25^th, 2014 at 9:52am	Print Post
	You should give warning that the coat tails only last for 24 hours. I had people thinking I'm their BFF for passing them +2 tomes in the chest.


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grimorde Dragon Raider Offline eh whatever... Posts: 223 Location: Sarlona Joined: Aug 11^th, 2013	Re: Am I a jerk? Or are people just fucking clingy? Reply #34 - Apr 25^th, 2014 at 9:58am	Print Post
	euphrasyne wrote on Apr 25^th, 2014 at 7:44am: If you are even remotely competent or nice ... Sorry Dist - you're doomed...


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rest One Man Wolfpack Offline Posts: 7223 Joined: Aug 13^th, 2010 Gender:	Re: Am I a jerk? Or are people just fucking clingy? Reply #35 - Apr 25^th, 2014 at 10:11am	Print Post
	You're not allowed to say no one likes you anymore, Dis.


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FakeStrake Puppy Farmer Offline I Love Drama, Derailment and Duping! Posts: 1584 Location: Inferno side Joined: Jul 5^th, 2012 Gender:	Re: Am I a jerk? Or are people just fucking clingy? Reply #36 - Apr 25^th, 2014 at 10:19am	Print Post
	A simple "no" would have been enough


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DoRayEgon Shroud Slacker Offline I Love Drama! Posts: 1042 Joined: Apr 4^th, 2014	Re: Am I a jerk? Or are people just fucking clingy? Reply #37 - Apr 25^th, 2014 at 10:30am	Print Post
	crazytiger wrote on Apr 25^th, 2014 at 3:14am: Most likely its because you got them fast exp This exactly. I've had people do this to me and I'm not exceptionally fast at zerging. But if you are faster than them and kill crap so they can pike....well then they want to be best friends.


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AngryKobold Waterworks Kobold Offline I Love Drama! Posts: 190 Location: Riding a Minotaur Joined: Nov 1^st, 2013 Gender:	Re: Am I a jerk? Or are people just fucking clingy? Reply #38 - Apr 25^th, 2014 at 10:31am	Print Post
	Distributed wrote on Apr 25^th, 2014 at 2:18am: This, situation, happens at least once a week for me. Put up LFM, people join, zerg through 2mil exp or whatever in a few hours. Done, log off, log on next day. Random person you did not even know before that joined said group: "Hey are you running anything?", every day after that group. So as always, I reply the usual after I get annoyed: "If I'm running anything, I will have a group up, if I don't, I'm soloing. Stop sending me random tells asking for that, I don't even know you". And then the usual reaction is along the lines of "wow wtf, don't worry I won't ask again, jerk". Do people somehow think you magically become their friends because you grouped with them once, when all they ever said in group was "what's next"? Or do they think I'm some kind of whore they can just call to get free and fast exp? Or are they just clingy fucks that get offended when I tell them they're annoying? Or am I really a jerk? I am going with aspergers...


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DoRayEgon Shroud Slacker Offline I Love Drama! Posts: 1042 Joined: Apr 4^th, 2014	Re: Am I a jerk? Or are people just fucking clingy? Reply #39 - Apr 25^th, 2014 at 10:38am	Print Post
	aspergers is made up by the government


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Bones Stormreaver Piker Offline Posts: 598 Joined: Feb 7^th, 2014 Gender:	Re: Am I a jerk? Or are people just fucking clingy? Reply #40 - Apr 25^th, 2014 at 11:35am	Print Post
	Distributed wrote on Apr 25^th, 2014 at 2:53am: That's what really bothers me. They're just strangers to me...yet they act like friends. It's kinda creepy sometimes. And no. No one would ever fall in love with my personality. The way you typed that... How you're handling the situation, the way your hair just-- Dude... I'm turning gay for you, I think I love you! Huh? oh? Uhhh, yeah! clingy players, jerks, something like that... Ehh, yeah.


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NOTdarth Puppy Farmer Offline Save the Planet, Kill Yourself Posts: 1495 Joined: Oct 15^th, 2012 Gender:	Re: Am I a jerk? Or are people just fucking clingy? Reply #41 - Apr 25^th, 2014 at 11:39am	Print Post
	Illetirated wrote on Apr 25^th, 2014 at 8:12am: You got bullied in school. The bully "stole" the girl you had a crush on. Now you think you have to be like the bully. 3 strikes, 3 misses. You're not really good at this, are you?


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eighnuss Epic Poster Offline ด้้้้้ ͩͩͩͩͩͩͩͩͩͩ ͩͩͩͩͩͩ Posts: 3499 Location: ด้้้้้็็็็็้้้้้็็็็็ ͩͩͩͩͩͩͩ Joined: Jan 30^th, 2013	Re: Am I a jerk? Or are people just fucking clingy? Reply #42 - Apr 25^th, 2014 at 11:56am	Print Post
	i remember like 4 years ago when u were crying and rage quitting ddo and committing suicide every day. I felt sorry for you, and actively made an effort to join your lfgs in hopes you might be a like-minded introvert. After maybe 3 runs it became obvious that you were just a selfish, attention seeking douche with a poor attitude and i went back to my static group/solo farms feeling that whatever you were experiencing in game, was brought upon yourself. I'm glad you got over whatever was hurting your rectum back then. This is why you must pug. As a result, you fill groups with newer players who see someone that actually knows the game, and shit bricks. This is why you bounced between shitloads of guilds. This is why you hurt. You are not a jerk, you are an experienced ddo player with a bad attitude. Most good players would rather have someone enjoyable in their groups (and or guilds), rather than a 6 man solo of silence. People who NEED to be carried through quests will seek you out. People who carry others through quests for entertainment,� won't. And you havent changed. You already know the answer yet here you are making a public spectacle of it again. we get it, you hate yourself, shut the fuck up, and stop venting publicly if u arent willing to address the root of these issues. the only people that want to deal with your shit, are the ones who NEED you to get through lvl 12 quests.

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DoRayEgon Shroud Slacker Offline I Love Drama! Posts: 1042 Joined: Apr 4^th, 2014	Re: Am I a jerk? Or are people just fucking clingy? Reply #43 - Apr 25^th, 2014 at 11:56am	Print Post
	NOTdarth wrote on Apr 25^th, 2014 at 11:39am: 3 strikes, 3 misses. You're not really good at this, are you? I enjoyed that internet therapy session. It's cheaper than my real ones.


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shadowgate Korthos Resident Offline I Love Drama! Posts: 31 Joined: Oct 28^th, 2012	Re: Am I a jerk? Or are people just fucking clingy? Reply #44 - Apr 25^th, 2014 at 12:56pm	Print Post
	You're just an asshole. You're running PUGs and are good enough that people want to run with you again and you're complaining? If you actually have friends ingame how did you even meet them? If some brain damaged person actually wants to become your friend what process do you expect them to follow? That said there are plenty of clingy people who play the game. Just a process of filtering them out.


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Distributed Abbot Raider Offline Posts: 855 Joined: Oct 4^th, 2013 Gender:	Re: Am I a jerk? Or are people just fucking clingy? Reply #45 - Apr 25^th, 2014 at 2:02pm	Print Post
	Quote: Distributed, now that you ask, I would like to make a Role Playing guild with you in Wayfinder. Only if we roleplay it PDK style.


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harharharhar Epic Poster Offline Girthless Trolllicker Posts: 3421 Joined: Aug 31^st, 2012 Gender:	Re: Am I a jerk? Or are people just fucking clingy? Reply #46 - Apr 25^th, 2014 at 2:11pm	Print Post
	Distributed wrote on Apr 25^th, 2014 at 2:18am: This, situation, happens at least once a week for me. Put up LFM, people join, zerg through 2mil exp or whatever in a few hours. Done, log off, log on next day. Random person you did not even know before that joined said group: "Hey are you running anything?", every day after that group. So as always, I reply the usual after I get annoyed: "If I'm running anything, I will have a group up, if I don't, I'm soloing. Stop sending me random tells asking for that, I don't even know you". And then the usual reaction is along the lines of "wow wtf, don't worry I won't ask again, jerk". Do people somehow think you magically become their friends because you grouped with them once, when all they ever said in group was "what's next"? Or do they think I'm some kind of whore they can just call to get free and fast exp? Or are they just clingy fucks that get offended when I tell them they're annoying? Or am I really a jerk? You seem like you're smart and funny, but also like you could be a HUGE prick and that looks down on everyone because you're really insecure and just want be good enough. I also might be any/all/none of those things, but I've NEVER abandoned a pug, I waste hours helping strangers in this game I don't know, even when they're fucking hopeless. Why? Because I want more people to play with who are as good as me. The only way that ever happens, is by offering to teach those who don't know. That's it. When you teach someone something in this game, it gets better for EVERYONE. When you're a prick, it gets worse for everyone. I'd trade 10 nice newbs who are good to other people and willing to learn for 1 awesome-sauce player who is an asshole, EVERYDAY OF THE WEEK.


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Mokune Shroud Slacker Offline Gimped Hairless Ape Posts: 1115 Joined: Nov 16^th, 2011	Re: Am I a jerk? Or are people just fucking clingy? Reply #47 - Apr 25^th, 2014 at 2:13pm	Print Post
	Gratz on your achievement...2million xp in a couple hours whats that like 17k/min or thereabouts using hillbilly ciphering. Too bad you had to come to the Vault for the recognition the L2PNOOBs in game couldn't give you... /PBR

	Welcome to your sexually transmitted death sentence served in a shit-machine meat suit.
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Distributed Abbot Raider Offline Posts: 855 Joined: Oct 4^th, 2013 Gender:	Re: Am I a jerk? Or are people just fucking clingy? Reply #48 - Apr 25^th, 2014 at 2:16pm	Print Post
	eighnuss wrote on Apr 25^th, 2014 at 11:56am: committing suicide every day. Only once, sorry it failed. This is why you bounced between shitloads of guilds. EW: Left because they didn't give a fuck about who they invited, we were there for renown only. Caffeine: Was apparently in the process of imploding when I joined, person that invited me in left, so did I. Soulless: Same as previous. QE: Guild kinda died, was often the only one online all day. Defense: Current guild. A shitload indeed. And you havent changed. You already know the answer yet here you are making a public spectacle of it again. I very well know I'm not the nicest guy around, but in this particular recurring situation I still do not believe I was being a jerk. Was wondering what others thought. Didn't care about the rest.
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Distributed Abbot Raider Offline Posts: 855 Joined: Oct 4^th, 2013 Gender:	Re: Am I a jerk? Or are people just fucking clingy? Reply #49 - Apr 25^th, 2014 at 2:17pm	Print Post
	shadowgate wrote on Apr 25^th, 2014 at 12:56pm: You're just an asshole. You're running PUGs and are good enough that people want to run with you again and you're complaining? Or they could just, you know, hit more of those lfms I put up everyday? Then chat a bit, maybe become friends the way normal people do? Instead of just being creepy stalkers.


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