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Mokune Shroud Slacker Offline Gimped Hairless Ape Posts: 1115 Joined: Nov 16^th, 2011	Re: Am I a jerk? Or are people just fucking clingy? Reply #50 - Apr 25^th, 2014 at 2:19pm	Print Post
	harharharhar wrote on Apr 25^th, 2014 at 2:11pm: You seem like you're smart and funny, but also like you could be a HUGE prick and that looks down on everyone because you're really insecure and just want be good enough. I also might be any/all/none of those things, but I've NEVER abandoned a pug, I waste hours helping strangers in this game I don't know, even when they're fucking hopeless. Why? Because I want more people to play with who are as good as me. The only way that ever happens, is by offering to teach those who don't know. That's it. When you teach someone something in this game, it gets better for EVERYONE. When you're a prick, it gets worse for everyone. I'd trade 10 nice newbs who are good to other people and willing to learn for 1 awesome-sauce player who is an asshole, EVERYDAY OF THE WEEK. Yeah! What harharhar said...

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Distributed Abbot Raider Offline Posts: 855 Joined: Oct 4^th, 2013 Gender:	Re: Am I a jerk? Or are people just fucking clingy? Reply #51 - Apr 25^th, 2014 at 2:31pm	Print Post
	harharharhar wrote on Apr 25^th, 2014 at 2:11pm: You seem like you're smart and funny, but also like you could be a HUGE prick and that looks down on everyone because you're really insecure and just want be good enough. I also might be any/all/none of those things, but I've NEVER abandoned a pug, I waste hours helping strangers in this game I don't know, even when they're fucking hopeless. Why? Because I want more people to play with who are as good as me. The only way that ever happens, is by offering to teach those who don't know. That's it. When you teach someone something in this game, it gets better for EVERYONE. When you're a prick, it gets worse for everyone. I'd trade 10 nice newbs who are good to other people and willing to learn for 1 awesome-sauce player who is an asshole, EVERYDAY OF THE WEEK. I don't abandon anyone in the group either and I am glad to answer any questions they might have and teach as much as I can. Two years ago or something I put up a guide on main forums about every tips and tricks I could think of in almost every quest, and I also put up a lot of teaching runs in the past. I have absolutely no problem with anyone hitting my lfms, good player or not. It just gets weird when what I said in the OP happens.


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Rubbinns The Undeserving Fuckwit Offline I Love Drama! Posts: 10460 Joined: Sep 4^th, 2013	Re: Am I a jerk? Or are people just fucking clingy? Reply #52 - Apr 25^th, 2014 at 2:32pm	Print Post
	Distributed wrote on Apr 25^th, 2014 at 2:17pm: Or they could just, you know, hit more of those lfms I put up everyday? Then chat a bit, maybe become friends the way normal people do? Instead of just being creepy stalkers. You can't be serious. Or you could be and are over coddled, and very sheltered. In which case I blame your mother, specifically for breast feeding you until you were 6 years old. Or as she likes to say "He's only 72 months old."� Your dad, even if unsocial. didn't raise you to be that weak of a bitch to cry here for how hard it is for you to make frandz. A real man's issues would be what is he going to eat for lunch? Tacos, or sushi today? IDK either :/ After you've had your fill of Vaul therapy sessions, you can help me decide what I want for lunch. Thxbff
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rest One Man Wolfpack Offline Posts: 7223 Joined: Aug 13^th, 2010 Gender:	Re: Am I a jerk? Or are people just fucking clingy? Reply #53 - Apr 25^th, 2014 at 2:32pm	Print Post
	Distributed wrote on Apr 25^th, 2014 at 2:16pm: Didn't care about the rest.


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harharharhar Epic Poster Offline Girthless Trolllicker Posts: 3421 Joined: Aug 31^st, 2012 Gender:	Re: Am I a jerk? Or are people just fucking clingy? Reply #54 - Apr 25^th, 2014 at 2:35pm	Print Post
	how big of a deal is it really that shitty people want to play with you after having that experience just once? most people would feel good about that.


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Meli Titan Demolisher Offline Posts: 397 Joined: Jan 30^th, 2014	Re: Am I a jerk? Or are people just fucking clingy? Reply #55 - Apr 25^th, 2014 at 2:38pm	Print Post
	Distributed wrote on Apr 25^th, 2014 at 2:16pm: Didn't care about the rest. A guess... people roll char, play a bit, don't know anyone, here you are as a friendly (friendly = not yelling at them for playing badly), person who they see around and there is hardly any lfms up and no one they know. Why not give them the starter channel details and suggest they join that? No skin off your nose. You don't have to be in there. I suspect it's going to get worse as the population shrinks and the only influx is new people trying out the game.


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Meli Titan Demolisher Offline Posts: 397 Joined: Jan 30^th, 2014	Re: Am I a jerk? Or are people just fucking clingy? Reply #56 - Apr 25^th, 2014 at 2:41pm	Print Post
	Oh and in answer to the subject line, obv, "not jerk enough".


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Misfits Korthos Resident Offline Follow the boobies! Posts: 84 Joined: Mar 13^th, 2014	Re: Am I a jerk? Or are people just fucking clingy? Reply #57 - Apr 25^th, 2014 at 2:42pm	Print Post
	Ya kinda sound like a Douche, TBO.


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Distributed Abbot Raider Offline Posts: 855 Joined: Oct 4^th, 2013 Gender:	Re: Am I a jerk? Or are people just fucking clingy? Reply #58 - Apr 25^th, 2014 at 2:47pm	Print Post
	rest wrote on Apr 25^th, 2014 at 2:32pm: Aww, I wasn't talking about you. Hug? harharharhar wrote on Apr 25^th, 2014 at 2:35pm: how big of a deal is it really that shitty people want to play with you after having that experience just once? most people would feel good about that. And I would be absolutely fine with them applying to the groups I put up again. But I don't know, when I get them asking in tells it's like, hold your horses there, we're not buddies yet, don't act like we are


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deftest Titan Demolisher Offline I Love Drama! Posts: 314 Joined: Jul 13^th, 2011	Re: Am I a jerk? Or are people just fucking clingy? Reply #59 - Apr 25^th, 2014 at 2:50pm	Print Post
	what vet doesnt get random tells from strangers they have grouped with ? since your whining about shit that most players just ignore ide go with douchebag jerk option kinda cemented by your stalking quips and other little asides


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Distributed Abbot Raider Offline Posts: 855 Joined: Oct 4^th, 2013 Gender:	Re: Am I a jerk? Or are people just fucking clingy? Reply #60 - Apr 25^th, 2014 at 2:53pm	Print Post
	Meli wrote on Apr 25^th, 2014 at 2:38pm: A guess... people roll char, play a bit, don't know anyone, here you are as a� friendly (friendly = not yelling at them for playing badly), person who they see around and there is hardly any lfms up and no one they know. Why not give them the starter channel details and suggest they join that? No skin off your nose. You don't have to be in there. I suspect it's going to get worse as the population shrinks and the only influx is new people trying out the game. Sadly the only channel I know of has Tagyis in it. Kind of a terrible place to send a new player to. Also wtf, am I the only one that has a reply box like this since today? My eyes hurt.
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Munkenmo Epic Poster Offline Posts: 4343 Location: A land under down under Joined: Nov 10^th, 2010	Re: Am I a jerk? Or are people just fucking clingy? Reply #61 - Apr 25^th, 2014 at 2:58pm	Print Post
	Distributed wrote on Apr 25^th, 2014 at 2:53pm: Sadly the only channel I know of has Tagyis in it. Kind of a terrible place to send a new player to. Also wtf, am I the only one that has a reply box like this since today? My eyes hurt. What happened to morfs channel?

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Distributed Abbot Raider Offline Posts: 855 Joined: Oct 4^th, 2013 Gender:	Re: Am I a jerk? Or are people just fucking clingy? Reply #62 - Apr 25^th, 2014 at 3:03pm	Print Post
	Munkenmo wrote on Apr 25^th, 2014 at 2:58pm: What happened to morfs channel? Oh I had the info forever ago, but it was for endgame stuff only and at that time I was TRing non-stop. So one life I just didn't rejoin after losing it on TR and have since lost info. No idea if there's still people in it.
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rest One Man Wolfpack Offline Posts: 7223 Joined: Aug 13^th, 2010 Gender:	Re: Am I a jerk? Or are people just fucking clingy? Reply #63 - Apr 25^th, 2014 at 3:12pm	Print Post
	deftest wrote on Apr 25^th, 2014 at 2:50pm: what vet doesnt get random tells from strangers they have� grouped with ? I don't get tells. Munkenmo wrote on Apr 25^th, 2014 at 2:58pm: What happened to morfs channel? There are usually 1-3 people in there. I few weeks ago I saw 6 at once! But usually when I'm in there, it's just me. Loulani and Dangered are in there, but they're also in defense so it's dead as hell in there. Plus they are in the euro zone so their playtimes are different than mine.


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Meli Titan Demolisher Offline Posts: 397 Joined: Jan 30^th, 2014	Re: Am I a jerk? Or are people just fucking clingy? Reply #64 - Apr 25^th, 2014 at 4:05pm	Print Post
	Distributed wrote on Apr 25^th, 2014 at 2:53pm: Sadly the only channel I know of has Tagyis in it. Kind of a terrible place to send a new player to. The fact that you care says you are not enough of a jerk. hashtag a vaultfail on that one.


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kum-gulp VoD Slasher Offline I Love Tired Vault Memes! Posts: 1810 Joined: Jul 16^th, 2010	Re: Am I a jerk? Or are people just fucking clingy? Reply #65 - Apr 25^th, 2014 at 6:40pm	Print Post
	Distributed wrote on Apr 25^th, 2014 at 2:47pm: And I would be absolutely fine with them applying to the groups I put up again. But I don't know, when I get them asking in tells it's like, hold your horses there, we're not buddies yet, don't act like we are� I'm with you. Appropriate social distance according to familiarity, not random /tells from one-time pug buds.


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GooFY Abbot Raider Offline Just one of those days... Posts: 771 Location: Washington State Joined: Dec 12^th, 2011 Gender:	Re: Am I a jerk? Or are people just fucking clingy? Reply #66 - Apr 25^th, 2014 at 7:06pm	Print Post
	Great thread.� May belong in drama initiative though� Rubbinns wrote on Apr 25^th, 2014 at 2:32pm: A real man's issues would be what is he going to eat for lunch? Tacos, or sushi today? IDK either :/ After you've had your fill of Vaul therapy sessions, you can help me decide what I want for lunch. Sounds like fish tacos would be a win/win for you�


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Dark_Helmet Wielder of the Schwartz Offline I hate you! Posts: 1176 Joined: Feb 14^th, 2010	Re: Am I a jerk? Or are people just fucking clingy? Reply #67 - Apr 26^th, 2014 at 2:25am	Print Post
	No, it is human nature that if someone is playing well that people will want to group with them in the future. If you acted like a noob, they would not request you join. I get those all the time and just ignore them - except if I am in a dungeon than it is very annoying. If they can't take the time to notice I was in the middle of running something, then I will wait until their run seems to be mostly over and then ask to join and take quite awhile to get to their quest.


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dilnu Waterworks Kobold Offline I Love Drama! Posts: 147 Joined: Oct 9^th, 2013	Re: Am I a jerk? Or are people just fucking clingy? Reply #68 - Apr 26^th, 2014 at 2:38am	Print Post
	Yeah people on sarlona stalk good players....hell i even get stalked on kelray and it is common knowledge that i am gimp i can only imagine what its like for some one that knows what they are doing. That said listen to mo he is right go anon it will solve this problem.


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ToBeDetermined Korthos Resident Offline nonom? Posts: 33 Joined: Apr 12^th, 2014	Re: Am I a jerk? Or are people just fucking clingy? Reply #69 - Apr 26^th, 2014 at 10:21am	Print Post
	Distributed wrote on Apr 25^th, 2014 at 2:18am: This, situation, happens at least once a week for me. Put up LFM, people join, zerg through 2mil exp or whatever in a few hours. Done, log off, log on next day. Random person you did not even know before that joined said group: "Hey are you running anything?", every day after that group. So as always, I reply the usual after I get annoyed: "If I'm running anything, I will have a group up, if I don't, I'm soloing. Stop sending me random tells asking for that, I don't even know you". And then the usual reaction is along the lines of "wow wtf, don't worry I won't ask again, jerk". Do people somehow think you magically become their friends because you grouped with them once, when all they ever said in group was "what's next"? Or do they think I'm some kind of whore they can just call to get free and fast exp? Or are they just clingy fucks that get offended when I tell them they're annoying? Or am I really a jerk? yeah your a fuckwad get used to it you have another century to live with yourself.


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garlor Korthos Resident Offline I Love Drama! Posts: 37 Joined: Sep 28^th, 2013	Re: Am I a jerk? Or are people just fucking clingy? Reply #70 - Apr 26^th, 2014 at 11:09am	Print Post
	you are an attention whore, a jerk wouldn't have written this shit


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Realism51 Korthos Resident Offline I Love Drama! Posts: 74 Joined: Mar 14^th, 2014	Re: Am I a jerk? Or are people just fucking clingy? Reply #71 - Apr 26^th, 2014 at 12:48pm	Print Post
	Distributed wrote on Apr 25^th, 2014 at 2:18am: This, situation, happens at least once a week for me. Put up LFM, people join, zerg through 2mil exp or whatever in a few hours. Done, log off, log on next day. Random person you did not even know before that joined said group: "Hey are you running anything?", every day after that group. So as always, I reply the usual after I get annoyed: "If I'm running anything, I will have a group up, if I don't, I'm soloing. Stop sending me random tells asking for that, I don't even know you". And then the usual reaction is along the lines of "wow wtf, don't worry I won't ask again, jerk". Do people somehow think you magically become their friends because you grouped with them once, when all they ever said in group was "what's next"? Or do they think I'm some kind of whore they can just call to get free and fast exp? Or are they just clingy fucks that get offended when I tell them they're annoying? Or am I really a jerk? I'd let em join and then go running the hardest shit I can come up with for them. ZERG ZERG right in the middle, and bring a tidal wave of red alert mobs to their breakfast table. Annoyance revenge - served with a twist of death


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Sham Stormreaver Piker Offline I Love Random Effects on Named Loot! - No one ever Posts: 685 Location: Siberia Joined: May 28^th, 2010 Gender:	Re: Am I a jerk? Or are people just fucking clingy? Reply #72 - Apr 26^th, 2014 at 1:06pm	Print Post
	Rubbinns wrote on Apr 25^th, 2014 at 2:32pm: You can't be serious. Or you could be and are over coddled, and very sheltered. In which case I blame your mother, specifically for breast feeding you until you were 6 years old. Or as she likes to say "He's only 72 months old."� Your dad, even if unsocial. didn't raise you to be that weak of a bitch to cry here for how hard it is for you to make frandz. A real man's issues would be what is he going to eat for lunch? Tacos, or sushi today? IDK either :/ After you've had your fill of Vaul therapy sessions, you can help me decide what I want for lunch. Thxbff A real man wouldn't be thinking tacos or sushi today. He would eat both.


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Distributed Abbot Raider Offline Posts: 855 Joined: Oct 4^th, 2013 Gender:	Re: Am I a jerk? Or are people just fucking clingy? Reply #73 - Apr 26^th, 2014 at 1:22pm	Print Post
	Sham wrote on Apr 26^th, 2014 at 1:06pm: A real man wouldn't be thinking tacos or sushi today. He would eat both.


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