Thanks Geoff for posting this here. I respect your openness.
I know after reading your blog that you expect hatred, but I really hope you don't get it. But chances are you'll get a couple of cheap shots - it is to be expected due to the diversity of people here.
I agree with some of what you say, but I also disagree with some of it too - and I will try to express why.
This statement in particular.
Quote:As if the dross and hate were somehow contagious, or like maybe it is a pool of hate and if you dive in, you still have some of it on you when you climb out.
I think this characterises the Vault in a particularly negative way, and I'm disappointed that you feel this way as I respect you. There are many different elements here - you take the good with the bad. Most days I look forward to reading the Vault. Sometimes I cringe, other times I almost spray my coffee on the screen as I lol, other times I skip threads completely. Alot of communication occurs via PM's because the Vault is read by Turdbine and informants, so if you're not part of those, you miss a lot of interesting chatter.
I found this quote to be unbecoming of you, but it's your opinion to own.
Quote:But if you go, I suggest you bring an alcohol wipe or other disinfectant. Liberally apply on exiting the Vault.
And this:
Quote:People who are banned from the forums are banned by Jerry, and end up on the DDOVault vomiting bile towards him as if it were something personal he did to them.
Hey, you pride yourself on how outlaw you are, you make a point of breaking the rules, okay, be that guy. But own it when you get caught, and stop blaming others for your own behavior. No one cares that “you can’t prove it for a fact” as if this was some kind of court of law where proof was necessary. You knew what you were doing. It was not Jerry, it was you, and you know it. Now man up (or woman up!) and own it.
I agree with the sentiment - if you do something wrong - own it.
But do you characterize the Vault as all rabid Jerry haters because we are DDO forums rejects? That would be disappointing.
I think those are the minority.
I'm not one. I come here to be able to speak openly, debate and learn from others whose knowledge is greater than mine.
Sure there is lots of inane and puerile stuff here and you have to filter it. I make absolutely no apologies for that stuff - it is a unavoidable byproduct of limited moderation.
But I find the open, honest and sometimes insightful comms here far more interesting than the sterile DDO forums with an obvious bias in the moderation.
There is a wealth of information and good people here if you invest the time. You probably don't see that as a lurker. I never really met the Vaulties until I started contributing to the community.
I'm sorry you feel the way you do about the Vault.